Should I have told him his dead mother approached me?

M.L., is this a loving, tolerant, forgiving boyfriend? If it is, he will come to his senses, love you and forgive you. Because, from what you have written, you seem to be a loving, compionate person, and you need someone like that. If the bf is not, like the mother said, you don't know your worth! perhaps this situation was exactly why she told you what she did. Jesus loves you too. About the question, you told him what pertained to him. When it comes to visions, you have to go with your conscience on what was meant to be revealed to others and who, so I think you made the right choice!